SENTIMENTALISM, or in other word, romance longing, make itself known most often under the guise “love”.
There are lots definitions of love. And there is a major different between “Love” and “Friends”. Be careful on what side you choose for.
Love also has different types of love.
The romantic nationalist claim to love their country, or we may consider a men in love with a girl which he turns into the sole focus of his life: What leads him to write a poetry saying “I Love You,” and to become obsessed with her to the point of suicide, and, in fact to “divinize” her, in the notion of “Love”.
As for the majority of people, they think that every emotion to which the name of “Love” is ascribed is virtuous or honorable, pure and even holy, and the example of romantic longing, such as what mentioned above are perfectly acceptable.
Love is indeed a very wonderful emotion, but it is important to distinguish whether that love is real or not, and to consider to whom / it directed to, and what sentiments it is founded on.
Love is to be shown to those who deserve it. Those who did not deserve it are not to be loved.
We are even to distance ourselves from them emotionally or at least, to not feel inclined towards them. But those who deserve love deserve it because of their desirable quality.
Someday, you'll realize how much you cared about her/he & how amazing she/he really was. And when that day comes, she/he will be walking with the guy/girl who already knew they was.
The only being deserve absolute loves is God, Who created us all. God bought us into existence, proffered us with the countless blessings we enjoyed, show us the way and promise us the everlasting paradise. He helps us out of anxiety and graciously hears our calls. It is He who feeds us until we are satisfied, cures us when we ill, and then restore our spirit.
Oh, maybe this is too religious or Islamic. But, yes. This is the truth, right? And when you in trouble or felt anxiety to Whom you are referring to? To your Boy/Girl friend? OH! Don’t be ridiculous.
Trust me on this;
When you want to talk to God,you should pray and say prayers.When you want to hear God talking to you, you should read the Quran.
And again;
Love is to be shown to those who deserve it. Those who did not deserve it are not to be loved.
And don’t fall in love with the beauty only. Deep inside also needs to be considered. And if you really think that you are very good looking, make sure you are good looking from inside too. Because “There are more than what meet the eyes”
And I always been labelled as “Loser” because of can’t find any girlfriend,
then, what the heck wrong with you, man?! There is a lots other things that much more crucial than romance. Don’t get too obsessed to fall in love. Love is wonderful and love also can be dangerous. Be smart. Don’t take the wrong step. Think before you act not instead.
OH..!
And…and… there is nothing wrong if you want to celebrate Valentine’s Day, OKEY!
I don't care if there's Valentine's Day or what.. it's still the same day for me. Oh well, "I am Loser, aite??"
Alright, let talk Love among us-the teenagers / adult.
I did some questionnaire to my friends on formspring.me.
What do they think if we fall in love with our own best friend? And such investigation should make clear the difference between the sentimentalism that lead to preserved love, and real love.
Q: Is it true, if we fall in love and we had an every day lovey-dovey with our love ones, or in other word that, we fell in love with our best friend. Does it consider as a major disaster?
A: The feeling is not there (i guess?) I mean, she's or he’s already your best friend, and when you are cross over that boundary, is it possible to remain friends when the relationship's over?
--Mr. H
A: Its gonna be major disaster only if there is some crack on it.
- TOKhairul (Mr. K)
A: As for me, it’s a YES, but not to say it is wrong. A friend is a second greater gift after our family even the are easy to find, but when it comes to lovey dovey thingy, the main concern is to have some temporary romance feeling until death do us apart for both sides. Fall in lovewith our own best friend, it’s ok. But does they account as “friend” again is the relationship cracked? And the worst nightmare is you will lost both of them- Love and Friend.
-Mr. P.Newman
A: ok, this is my opinion. I did that when I was in my form 2. Maybe I was still very foolish at that time, so it ended badly. I never spoke to him for the rest of my schooling years and until now, I can speak to him, but not like before (as best friend) because it’s awkward. Indeed. But if that person willing to take the risk, why not, but you have to bear with the consequence. No, No, No. scratches those all.
This will be my answer. IT DEPENDS! :)
--Miss Nath.
A: based on rationality, there is nothing wrong with it. Who the heck that said fall in love with our own best friend is a major disaster? YES, If we fall in love with our own best friend and you guys like gambling with you own friendship relationship, but NO, it is not a major disaster to fall in love to your own buddy. Humpty dumpty sat on the wall. Read the full article HERE
Oh, maybe I've experience on this thingy. but at last, we make a MAJOR decision, and we stick to BEST FRIEND.
SO, What say you? dare to fall in love with your best friend?
Don't afraid to fall in love...
Ok...Ok...
Saying something and wishing you hadn't? Or Saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.
Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?
Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own. When you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.
Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?
Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even not care at all.
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger. Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.
"Think First Before You Act"
Happy Holiday!
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