Students Should Vote During 'Students' Election' Because...

Because..??

It's because students are meant to do so since the first time they register to pursue their study..It's synergy..Doesn't matter whether they are voting with full-hearted or empty-hearted, they are still have to play their role as voters..

 

(Respond to figure above ==> Yeaaahh!! I'm ready...but for sure, voting for the real one only)

Back to the topic, sometimes there are students who being very skeptical towards so called voting-in-university because they think the consequences would always be the same at the end of the day..Which means, this kind of activity more or less just only to replace or to find the new qualified candidate..It's not more than that..This is the common sense among students who never give a Pocket-Full-of-Sunshine for voting purpose..They never care who got elected, never mind about what progression the elected candidate would make and never want to know who gonna be main head after the vote..

In my opinion, students should just vote anyone who might bring at least slight differences for them. Who knows, sooner or later, the progression may come out better in the leadership of that elected candidate. Besides, having that experiences by taking part in voting could realize students how important to take that opportunity. It might not ends during student-time, but until they are off in adulthood. On that time, every single vote is worthy to be brought up. At least they know how it feel to vote for their right, not only for the candidate but for all people.

No matter which candidate might get elected, what differences they will bring up, male or female, how good their skills in leadership and whatever it is, students should play their role as voters. Give a best shot towards the voting purposes. There is should be something in their mind that when they are voting for their chosen one, it is like giving a chance or opportunity to a candidate. Even though it is only one vote from a voter, it will make a very huge chances whether he/she wins or loses the election. That's all. The thing student should do is, make comparison among candidates (do not pick up randomly), choose the better one or 'your friend' and whatever it is, do your right as a voter. Who knows, you might be nominated to be the head of 'everything'.

(p/s : for those who didnt vote during the last election in Micet, u got me as well..i didnt either..forgot to do so)

Great Leaders are Not Born, They are Made..

There are many great leaders all around the world..They are capable of doing anything by only bring up their golden speeches, showing off their courage to embrace the responsibilities on their shoulders or by pushing a button to blows everybody's mind (mind here means flesh and brain).

Whatever these great leaders are going to be, are they born or made to be the head of people??

What do I think??

I think great leaders are made and for sure they were born first so they can experience the meaning of life..So I say Yes to it that great leaders are made..

Great leaders are not only the one who were once ruled the world, drop off a bomb in Hiroshima and Nagasaki, had an-half-of-the-world-empire and so on so forth but they are the one who could lead other people to successful deeds, the one who could be as a role-play to one's skill improvement and can embrace others need in term of certain ways.

Usually, these great leaders didn't even think about being head of a leadership from the starter because their actions are based on mind logical thinking, knowledgeable in every ways like know-it-all matters and have that particular specialties to come out with actions. They are all just ordinary people but the differences they have made turn out to be the one that will make them leaders. Lets make examples from ancient great leader such as Alexander The Great.

Who is Alexander The Great??

 

Alexander The Great as his real name was Alexander III of Macedon was a king of Macedonia which located in the north eastern region of Greece. He had the entire Persian Empire conquered and his leadership in battles has expanded his own empire from the Adriatic sea to the Indus River and stretching even bigger towards lands all around the world.

The point is even Alexander was an ordinary kid but after he had his lessons in many fields and gain valuable knowledge. After the death of his father, Philip II of Macedon, he succeeded him to the throne and having a very large army strength of his father's previous empire. At age thirteen, he got his lesson from a tutor named Aristotle who was a very visionary person on that time and yet, that was how the great leader (Alexander The Great) made of.

What do you think about Adolf Hitler?

Who do you think he was back then before he served in a Bavarian regiment for German during World War I?

 

He had very bitter and rough childhood time. He has been abandoned by his father Alois Hitler who served in a Austrian regiment. Adolf Hitler had attitude problems which caused him expelled from schools he has entered. Since his family often moved from places to places, he had to go to different schools but because of his lack of attitude, he got kicked out.

Adolf Hitler loved to paint and everything related to arts in his earlier life of childhood and adulthood. But he as been rejected by Academy of Fine Arts Vienna with the citing "unfitness to painting".

In a few days I myself knew that I should some day become an architect. To be sure, it was an incredibly hard road; for the studies I had neglected out of spite at the Realschule were sorely needed. One could not attend the Academy's architectural school without having attended the building school at the Technic, and the latter required a high-school degree. I had none of all this. The fulfillment of my artistic dream seemed physically impossible.

- Adolf Hitler -

As we know, Adolf Hitler was a tyrant who brought up the Holocaust revolutionary that eliminated almost all Jews (approximately 6 millions) because of his hatred towards Jews and after his antisemitism act. That was all started when he influenced by Martin Luther's On the Jews and their Lies and during World War I after he joined Bavarian regiment thus, made him as a tyrant after he got elected to be the leader of Nazi organization. As conclusion, he was just an ordinary kid who loved arts and architectures.

So, think again whether great leaders are born, or made to be..

Birth Order Trait..

Does it occur to us that it really determines one's characteristic..?

"As an older sister, I deserve to inherit the wealth of our parents"
"He can get everything he wants from his parents while his older sister worked hard to get something"
"I got our family's matters on my shoulder," said an older brother to his younger sister.
"I can handle these problems 'coz I'm matured enough than you, little bro"
"She can never beat his older sister in IQ test"
"Azmi, give those toys to Elma. You're so calculative in everything with your little sister," said mom.
"Why I feel neglected by our parents? Is it because I'm a middle child among you guys?"

Now, what do you think??

In my opinion, in some way and some how, the birth order trait do really plays its role among siblings. Sometimes, with these characteristics we can notice in older, middle and younger siblings, we can determine what kind of their habits, what they do routinely, what level of their mind thinking, toward which way of their interactions and et cetera et cetera. In other hand, they might always follow this kind of nature order in themselves without even noticed.

This kind of thing usually depends on many ways. It might be the child's growing time and environment, family conditions including siblings, friends, perhaps the toys, the birth of another siblings and the important matter is how their parents expose them in learning and to get knowledge slowly from a little-cute kid. This happens and might exist in everybody's childhood. These factors or natural orders (birth order) might be the one which determine them to become accordingly to their birth order.

Usually the older siblings act like the ways they used to be are normal since their parents teach and need them what to be like:

"Azmi, your mom is working and I need to go out just for a while. Please look out for your little brother"
"Fahmi, take your little sister for a shower. Please clean her up. I need to cook for dinner"
"Papa got sick today and your mama went to groceries for a while. Could you please bring me something to drink"

At the end of the day, they'll just get used to it, taking good care of other family members, being dependent and learn new things out by themselves. Whatever it is, older siblings will have natural feelings that they have that particular responsibilities which might lead them to become mature, flexible in every way of acts and et cetera et cetera.  

While for middle and younger siblings, their characteristics can be determined either by the same factors as older siblings had became or by the natural order (birth order). Whatever they are gonna be, there are always the causes and the consequences in themselves regarding every single factor. It is all the same. Sometimes, when these middle and younger siblings have their older siblings to take care of them in every way, they will always feel comfortable and pleasant. So they will just get used to it and happy by becoming that way.

 

However, sometimes it is also natural and common if the birth order trait doesn't fit accordingly towards children. Some ways or another, the children turn out to be different which mean don't become exactly like their own birth order. As I mentioned earlier, it depends on many ways. The characteristic of younger sibling can be exactly like older sibling's and otherwise for the characteristic of older brother.

There are reasons why older, middle and younger act that way, the way of their birth order. Their characteristics are not something that permanent, cannot be changed or some kind of cursed-like matters in themselves because whatever birth order they are in, sooner or later they'll realize what is the most important matter among them rather than being the older, the middle and the younger.


Thank you for reading this late-posted-entry..

Sentimentalism or Love

Assalammualaikum and Hello Gorgeous!

SENTIMENTALISM, or in other word, romance longing, make itself known most often under the guise “love”. 

There are lots definitions of love. And there is a major different between “Love” and “Friends”. Be careful on what side you choose for. 

Love also has different types of love.

The romantic nationalist claim to love their country, or we may consider a men in love with a girl which he turns into the sole focus of his life: What leads him to write a poetry saying “I Love You,” and to become obsessed with her to the point of suicide, and, in fact to “divinize” her, in the notion of “Love”.

 Pppffftt… peh-lis!! (Please!!)

 

As for the majority of people, they think that every emotion to which the name of “Love” is ascribed is virtuous or honorable, pure and even holy, and the example of romantic longing, such as what mentioned above are perfectly acceptable.

Love is indeed a very wonderful emotion, but it is important to distinguish whether that love is real or not, and to consider to whom / it directed to, and what sentiments it is founded on.

Love is to be shown to those who deserve it. Those who did not deserve it are not to be loved. 

We are even to distance ourselves from them emotionally or at least, to not feel inclined towards them. But those who deserve love deserve it because of their desirable quality.

Someday, you'll realize how much you cared about her/he & how amazing she/he really was. And when that day comes, she/he will be walking with the guy/girl who already knew they was.

The only being deserve absolute loves is God, Who created us all. God bought us into existence, proffered us with the countless blessings we enjoyed, show us the way and promise us the everlasting paradise. He helps us out of anxiety and graciously hears our calls. It is He who feeds us until we are satisfied, cures us when we ill, and then restore our spirit.

Oh, maybe this is too religious or Islamic. But, yes. This is the truth, right? And when you in trouble or felt anxiety to Whom you are referring to? To your Boy/Girl friend? OH! Don’t be ridiculous.

Trust me on this;

When you want to talk to God,you should pray and say prayers.When you want to hear God talking to you, you should read the Quran.

And again;

Love is to be shown to those who deserve it. Those who did not deserve it are not to be loved.

And don’t fall in love with the beauty only. Deep inside also needs to be considered. And if you really think that you are very good looking, make sure you are good looking from inside too. Because “There are more than what meet the eyes”

And I always been labelled as “Loser” because of can’t find any girlfriend,

then, what the heck wrong with you, man?! There is a lots other things that much more crucial than romance. Don’t get too obsessed to fall in love. Love is wonderful and love also can be dangerous. Be smart. Don’t take the wrong step. Think before you act not instead. 

OH..!

And…and… there is nothing wrong if you want to celebrate Valentine’s Day, OKEY! 

Unless you’re making up before married on Valentine’s Day (as for Muslim) and that is wrong. Very, actually. (that's my opinion. Don't get to obsessed)

I don't care if there's Valentine's Day or what.. it's still the same day for me. Oh well, "I am Loser, aite??" 


Alright, let talk Love among us-the teenagers / adult.

I did some questionnaire to my friends on formspring.me. 

What do they think if we fall in love with our own best friend? And such investigation should make clear the difference between the sentimentalism that lead to preserved love, and real love. 

Q: Is it true, if we fall in love and we had an every day lovey-dovey with our love ones, or in other word that, we fell in love with our best friend. Does it consider as a major disaster?

A: The feeling is not there (i guess?) I mean, she's or he’s already your best friend, and when you are cross over that boundary, is it possible to remain friends when the relationship's over? 

--Mr. H

A: Its gonna be major disaster only if there is some crack on it.

- TOKhairul (Mr. K)

A: As for me, it’s a YES, but not to say it is wrong. A friend is a second greater gift after our family even the are easy to find, but when it comes to lovey dovey thingy, the main concern is to have some temporary romance feeling until death do us apart for both sides. Fall in lovewith our own best friend, it’s ok. But does they account as “friend” again is the relationship cracked? And the worst nightmare is you will lost both of them- Love and Friend.

-Mr. P.Newman

A: ok, this is my opinion. I did that when I was in my form 2. Maybe I was still very foolish at that time, so it ended badly. I never spoke to him for the rest of my schooling years and until now, I can speak to him, but not like before (as best friend) because it’s awkward. Indeed. But if that person willing to take the risk, why not, but you have to bear with the consequence. No, No, No. scratches those all.

This will be my answer. IT DEPENDS! :)

--Miss Nath.

A: based on rationality, there is nothing wrong with it. Who the heck that said fall in love with our own best friend is a major disaster? YES, If we fall in love with our own best friend and you guys like gambling with you own friendship relationship, but NO, it is not a major disaster to fall in love to your own buddy. Humpty dumpty sat on the wall. Read the full article HERE

-Miss Gadis Berstokin Belang




Oh, maybe I've experience on this thingy. but at last, we make a MAJOR decision, and we stick to BEST FRIEND. 


SO, What say you? dare to fall in love with your best friend? 




Don't afraid to fall in love...

Ok...Ok...

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't? Or Saying nothing and wishing you had?

I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.

Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?

Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own. When you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.

Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you?

Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even not care at all.

Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?

We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger. Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.

Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.





"Think First Before You Act"

Happy Holiday!